I posted this a few years ago when I first saw the movie. I have rewatched it more than once over the years, and after watching a couple of slightly below-average to average offerings recently (a movie called TAU and the third movie in the NOW YOU SEE ME franchise (NOW YOU SEE ME, NOW YOU DON’T) along with READY OR NOT (the first, not the sequel) and the short Punisher one-off on Disney+, I felt like I needed to watch something that I knew would be a five-star viewing experience for me. And I wasn’t in the mood for INFINITY WAR/ENDGAME (too long, although having just seen the Punisher and DareDevil Born Again Season 2 and anticipating the two big offerings later in the year from Marvel), so I settled on one of my go-to’s: LA LA LAND.
This is a repost of my thoughts when I first watched it. I do not have much new to add. But so few people look at my blog that odds are this will seem fresh to anyone checking it out. Any new comments I have are in parentheses and italics.
If you don’t know, the movie is about two young dreamers, an actress (Stone) and a jazz musician (Gosling) chasing those dreams and finding each other, supporting each other, and falling in love. It was the ending that really made what would have been a good film into a great one, in my opinion.
Don’t read on if you don’t want some things about the movie spoiled for you.
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Okay, that’s enough space. So, the ending…
As a viewer, you go through the entire film watching the relationship of Emma Stone’s Mia and
Ryan Gosling’s Seb (short for Sebastian) build up from their awkward first encounters, to their
budding romance, and finally to Seb’s missteps (betrayal seems like too strong a word) as they both chase their dreams. They have their inevitable breakup, and then Seb gets a call from a woman looking to audition Mia for a starring role in a big motion picture which will be filmed in Paris. He has to find Mia, who has returned to her parents’ home, and he must try to convince her to go for it. (Seb basically recalls something she said on their first meeting, when she is telling him about her love of movies and acting. It’s kind of an offhand comment, but he remembers. This says something about Seb, but the movie doesn’t harp on it. They just leave it there for the viewer to notice.) She does, and does well, and then the film cuts to five years in the future.
We see Mia basically becoming the huge star, going to the coffee shop where she used to work, very much like what happened at the beginning when she was the barista and a star orders from her. From there, she goes home, where waits the baby and her husband. She looks pretty happy. She has it all, a family and her dream career.
But wait! The husband isn’t Seb. It’s someone else!
So she and the husband are going out and leaving the baby with a nanny, and they get off the
expressway and end up wandering into a jazz club.
The logo at the door, the name of the club, is SEB’S. It’s the very logo that Mia designed over five years ago. Mia and her husband enter and find a table to watch the talented combo play some old-school jazz. After the song concludes, the owner of the club comes onstage, and to no one’s surprise, it’s her old love, Seb. He sees her—and they lock eyes right before he sits down at the piano. He plays the opening notes of the song that’s run through the entire soundtrack: “Mia and Sebastian’s Theme.” It’s a pretty song, with some intricate piano runs and a haunting melody, and it takes Mia back.
And we see in her mind that she’s back in the club where she first encountered Seb. She wandered in after an unfulfilling party, and she hears him play this song. Right after the song finishes, the manager fires Seb for not playing the Christmas music he’s been hired to play. She goes to compliment him and…
Back then, in real life, he rudely bumped into her as he stormed past and out of the club.
This time, however, he passionately embraces her and kisses her in this fantasy, and their life together—a life that did not come to pass—plays out in her mind. Mia watches them go through their life together, hit their milestones, but there are two distinct changes: One, Seb turns down John Legend’s character for a job in his powerhouse band, and two, Seb is there, front row, at a packed house for Mia’s one woman play that she’s produced and starred in. (The first time, the house wasn’t packed — there were only a couple of people in it.)
She nails the audition, and the baby is still there (but now it’s a little boy!), but now Seb is the husband and father, and they’re leaving for a night out, and they end up in the jazz club, but it isn’t “Seb’s” any more. They’re audience members watching the band. And then it fades back to reality, and we’re back to Seb playing the final notes of the theme, and Mia is still sitting next to her husband (played by Tom Everett Scott — hey, she ended up with Skitch, the drummer for the Wonders and an aspiring jazz player
in the movie THAT THING YOU DO).
They get up to leave, and there’s a sadness about it, but then she looks back and her eyes meet
with Seb’s eyes, and they smile, a knowing smile, and it’s over.
So what happened?
I read some comments that suggested that in Mia’s daydream, Seb was the one who made all the sacrifices. He doesn’t join up with the powerhouse band that has a big hit and is doing huge
venues and pays well. He doesn’t end up with his jazz club. He just follows Mia on her career
path.
I read another comment that suggested that during the movie, Mia was always the one supporting Seb. She watched him perform multiple times during the film, and he never saw her, even at the play that he missed because of a photo session for the band.
But why is Seb in this band that clearly isn’t the kind of music that he loves? There was a phone
call early in the movie where Mia is talking to her mother about Seb and describing his job
prospects, and Seb hears it and I think he gets the idea that Mia wants him to do something like
this band, to be very successful.
It seems they’re both doing stuff for the other one. (On this watch, I wonder about this observation. What was Mia doing for Seb? How was she supporting his dreams? Sure she sees him play, but, well…so what? That just seems to be them dating.) Miscommunication? Maybe. But throughout the movie, they’re both chasing dreams. Seb’s dream of owning his own jazz club where he does things his way seems to be a longshot without the band that he’s part of. Mia’s acting career seems to be a longshot if she doesn’t do her dream project of the play. It’s Seb’s one “selfish” act of not attending the play because of a photo shoot that he’s forced into that pushes them apart, and maybe makes them realize just how important their own dreams are to themselves. (And was it really selfish? Or was he simply making the responsible choice? The one that he’s contractually obligated to do? He says earlier that he wishes she would have said something BEFORE he signed on the dotted line… Still, I tried to tell Seb through the TV screen to just say no and go support Mia. Does he underestimate the importance of the night to her? I cannot see how he could. So maybe it is a poor choice…but a selfish one? Still not sure about that.)
In the end, their smiles say that they both recognize what they’ve done for each other…helped each other to achieve their dreams, but at the expense of the dream of having each other. And maybe they could have had each other also, but that would have come at the expense of either Seb’s or Mia’s dream. (I wondered when watching this scene: would EITHER of them have it any other way, really? Would Mia trade her husband and daughter for Seb and a son? Would Seb trade his club and his dream for the life that Mia imagines? I think it’s left unanswered. But it is a great question!)
Are they happy with this? I think the smile they share at the end shows that they’ve at least
accepted it. (This goes back to the comment above—would they want that other life, if it was a possibility?) In an interview about the ending, Emma Stone said, “”I don’t know that they
necessarily couldn’t have ended up together. I think these two characters help inspire each
other’s dreams and the way that that unfolds means that they can’t end up together but that their love isn’t any less important. I was talking to somebody the other night and he said that ‘What I really love about this story is that in the end, even though she’s happily married and has a baby, that this movie celebrates those loves that came before and that they’re just as important as the love you have now.’ It’s about how important each person is in your journey in wherever you’re going.”
So they know that without each other, they would never have achieved their goals, and they’re
better for having known each other and having loved each other.
It’s a deep ending that provoked a lot of thought in me.
I’d love to hear comments about the movie in the comments to this post (assuming anyone reads this).
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As I said at the beginning, I really think this was a great film that will stand the test of time and
will be enjoyable to watch years down the road…and will probably inspire a few people to follow
their own dreams.
Addendum: I have been thinking about this film’s place in my “all-time” list. My 5-star watches are different from what I consider to be the “best” or what would be ranked as 1 through 10 on such a list. Movies like Mission Impossible, Infinity War, Back To The Future, and Pixar films like Soul and Up all get five stars, and every time I rewatch those movies, I am left with the conviction that they earn that rating. But not all of those movies would be in the running for my personal “best” movie, or would earn a position on my personal top five or top ten.
LA LA LAND would definitely make my top ten list. It probably would make my top five list, and it might just be in the running for the number ONE spot on that list. Some of the other contenders would include (for me) the Lord of the Rings trilogy taken as a whole, and THE TWO TOWERS, taken as an individual movie. I love that movie. Also, I’d have to have THE STING, ANNIE HALL, CASABLANCA, and possibly WAKE UP DEAD MAN (a Knives Out story). UP and COCO probably make the list, and so does IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE. All these movies have resonated incredibly in my brain. In my view, LA LA LAND is right up there with those films.
Now, I’m not a film historian. I just like what I like. Same with books. I like a lot of books that no one will ever consider to be “classics,” and some that ARE considered to be “classics” don’t make my list. People see great things in certain works that I just can’t get to. The problems are mine, probably.
I’ve read a bunch of Letterboxd reviews, some saying that this is one of the best movies of all time (which as you can probably tell, I more or less agree with) and some saying it is utter trash. I don’t know. Some of those “bad” reviews complain about things that I found to be completely untrue, like underdeveloped, flat characters. Bad singing (ok, I accept that about the leads in this movie. John Legend is the only one of the true leads who has a real voice). Music that doesn’t work.
To me, a story guy, a musician, a (bad) singer, I find all of those either untrue or irrelevant. These are supposed to be “normal” people. They aren’t Broadway stars. They aren’t international pop stars. (Well, John Legend actually IS.) The very average (perhaps that’s charitable in Gosling’s case) singing voices of the leads are perhaps part of the point. They are just PEOPLE. Their talents are specific, as are most people. We can’t all be geniuses or phenomenons at everything. Seb is an amazing jazz keyboardist. Mia is an amazing actor and storyteller. The fact that they aren’t amazing at everything else serves to highlight those talents. It’s kind of genius when you think about it.
I also read one review that stated that the two (Stone and Gosling) have no chemistry. I was like, WHAT!?!?!? They have off-the-charts chemistry with each other. They seem SO natural. What is this reviewer looking for? If these two have no chemistry, then just who DOES?!?
I could go on and on. But I think I’ve made my point. There are myriad reasons that I feel this movie belongs in my personal pantheon of great films, and I’ve highlighted a few in this commentary and review.
So go give it a watch, whether it be via streaming, rental, or purchase. Or if you’re lucky, maybe you can catch it in a theater on some revival run, if they ever do that. Or at one of the showings where they have a live symphony doing the score. See if you agree. But if you don’t, do me a favor. Keep it to yourself! 🙂

